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Behind the Scenes at Your Local Feminist Adult Retail Store: Oh My! Sensuality

I have been working at Oh My! Sensuality for about two years, and they have been years filled with dancing, tasting a lot of lube, watching/reviewing a lot of porn and products, and helping western Massachusetts pick out all sorts of awesome, totally silly at times, but always worth smiling about, toys. The work I […]

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My Survivor Statement for Take Back The Night 2012: Living Stone

This was the statement I read from/adapted from for Take Back The Night this year. Trigger warning for discussions of sexual violence, rough play, and non-consent. If you ever get in bed with me, I will say something to you that will sound like a laundry list of how to touch my body. Don’t grab […]

Red Flags: Violence in Women’s Spaces

Violence is something that I spend a lot of time thinking about. On a personal level, violence in my life has greatly shaped my growth and experiences. And on an academic level, that I am an activist and student of violence prevention adds another level to how I need to be/am aware of violence around […]

Getting “Over It” (a brief manifesto)

(trigger warning for blunt discussion of sexual assault) The other night I hung out with two of my best and most brilliant friends. We made pasta with capers and pine nuts, drank tea, and discussed our activism and how we each feel rape culture should be combatted. We discussed kink, friendship, how one of us […]

Alcohol, Rape Culture’s Perfect Weapon

Trigger warning for blunt, direct discussion of sexual violence and assault. Growing up, my father continually reminded me to “consider the context” when I was flustered or angry about something. It is the first best piece of life guidance I have ever received, and probably why I am now a sociology major. The second best […]

Tapestry Health, Northampton MA. A Glowing Review.

Yesterday was my first time at a Family Planning Clinic. I was fortunate enough to have an OBGYN  at a young age, and parents who supported me using birth control and having conversations with them about sex. I had a supportive medical community as a girl, a first edition copy of “Our Bodies Ourselves” next […]

Combining Identities; Butch, Survivor, Teacher, Friend, Role Model, Resource

Trigger Warning for content regarding sexual assault. Recently I had a student contact me about someone close to her who had been sexually assaulted, and as a result no longer felt comfortable identifying as a woman. The student wanted to know what she could do to help her close friend, and was struggling to figure […]

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