Tag Archives: Advice
From The Mailbag: Coming Out Kinky
Dear Parks, What do you think about being out/coming out as kinky? Any advice or tips on how to navigate being a deviant? Please visit soon, Milwaukee, WI I was not sure how much longer I would keep this blog fairly BDSM/kink-free. Recently, so many of my students and peers have been asking me about […]
Gloves: The Wonder Barrier
At this point in my life, I do not exchange fluids with anyone. Beyond makin’ out about it, I don’t want any of your fluids and I don’t want to give you mine. I practice safe sex as adamantly as I practice consent in my partnerships. I always have a bag of supplies on me, […]
Being Your Own Primary Partner
I am my own primary partner. I do things for myself that are just to show me how much I love myself. I go on dates with me. I go on long bike rides, I row boats, I bake cookies, I wear clothes that make me feel good, I am learning to play ukulele, I […]
The Care and Keeping of Your Collection
We have all been there. The “when was the last time I washed this? Eh, all well” moment. It may be okay when applied to your sweatshirt, but it is NOT right to use when it comes to sex toys. Just don’t do it. Take some extra time to prep and you will be better […]
How to break up, advice on doing the deed.
Hi all! So a co-worker recently asked me what was the best way to break up with someone. This is a question I often receive from students who want to know how to “stay friends” after the break up, or rather how to break up with someone without it blowing up in their face. So […]
