I recently have had the immense pleasure of reviewing the Njoy Eleven. Already, this toy has a special place in my heart and in my tool box of toys. Steel is one of my favorite toy materials, and I am a huge fan of Njoy’s products, so I was just itching to try this one […]
I have been working at Oh My! Sensuality for about two years, and they have been years filled with dancing, tasting a lot of lube, watching/reviewing a lot of porn and products, and helping western Massachusetts pick out all sorts of awesome, totally silly at times, but always worth smiling about, toys. The work I […]
I have not published a post in a few months. I wish that I could have; goodness knows I’ve started about fifteen different posts and just have not found them quite publishable. Part of this is that when I began this blog, a little over a year ago, it was a project to add to […]
Dear Parks, What do you think about being out/coming out as kinky? Any advice or tips on how to navigate being a deviant? Please visit soon, Milwaukee, WI I was not sure how much longer I would keep this blog fairly BDSM/kink-free. Recently, so many of my students and peers have been asking me about […]
This was the statement I read from/adapted from for Take Back The Night this year. Trigger warning for discussions of sexual violence, rough play, and non-consent. If you ever get in bed with me, I will say something to you that will sound like a laundry list of how to touch my body. Don’t grab […]
There is a sign over the porn section of Oh My! Sensuality (my job) that reads, “We know some of the titles are funny. Please do not yell them out loud.” This is one of my favorite things in the store, for two reasons: It gets really annoying when I hear “Bears in Heat?! HAHAHAHA” for […]
My grandmother knows that I am a sex educator. My grandmother is a military wife, a super-conservative, Southern, incredible, unstoppable, stubborn, and brilliant woman. Sometimes we talk about what I am doing with my life. You know, college, who I am dating, any good recipes I have tried out recently, how my crew team is doing. I […]
At this point in my life, I do not exchange fluids with anyone. Beyond makin’ out about it, I don’t want any of your fluids and I don’t want to give you mine. I practice safe sex as adamantly as I practice consent in my partnerships. I always have a bag of supplies on me, […]
I have already discussed how “Sex” is a really subjective term, and is not reliable as a stand-alone vocabulary word for teaching. I want to make it very clear that I think that having sex with someone you love can be wonderful. I think sex is wonderful, I think love is wonderful, and when they […]
